What You Should Know About Body Butters

by with No Comment Beauty

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Imagine whipped cream, but for your skin. That’s the easiest way I can describe a body butter.

For the past six years, body butters have been a staple in my body care routine. I’ve tried different textures, ingredients, and a few brands, and one thing remains true: when it comes to keeping skin supple, nourished, and glowing, a good body butter is hard to beat.

But what exactly is a body butter? 

Is it better than lotion? 

Who should use it? 

And how do you choose the right one for your skin?

In this guide, I’ll answer all your questions and share my favorite body butters. If you’re a visual learner, don’t forget to scroll down for the accompanying YouTube video.

Let’s get into it, shall we?

What Is a Body Butter?

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A body butter is a rich moisturizer made primarily from natural plant butters and oils. Common ingredients include shea butter, cocoa butter, mango butter, kokum butter, avocado butter, and nourishing oils such as jojoba, sweet almond, or sunflower oil.

Unlike body lotions, body butters contain little to no water, making them thicker, creamier, and more effective at locking moisture into the skin. According to I Love Cosmetics, one major difference between a body lotion and body butter is their consistency. 

Depending on the formulation, body butters can be:

  • Whipped and airy
  • Rich and dense
  • Lightweight and fast-absorbing
  • Deeply nourishing and occlusive

The texture and feel largely depend on the ingredients and manufacturing process.

Benefits of Body Butter

So, why all the hype?

Here are some of the biggest benefits of using a body butter:

1. Deep Moisturization

Because body butters are rich in oils and natural butters, they provide intense hydration and help prevent dryness.

2. Helps Lock In Moisture

Body butters create a protective barrier on the skin, helping to reduce water loss and keep your skin soft for longer.

3. Softens Rough Areas

If you struggle with dry elbows, knees, heels, or ankles, a body butter can make a noticeable difference.

4. Gives Skin a Healthy Glow

One of my favorite things about body butter is the beautiful glow it leaves on the skin without necessarily feeling greasy.

5. Great for Cold Weather

During the harmattan season, in winter, or in air-conditioned environments, body butters help combat dryness more effectively than many lotions.

Body Butter vs Body Lotion: What’s the Difference?

Many people wonder whether they need a body butter when they already use lotion.

Here’s a simple comparison:

  • Texture: Body butters are rich and thick, versus body lotions that are light and fluid
  • Water content: Body lotions have a higher water content than butters that have little.
  • Best season: Body butters come to play during cold seasons, winter or harmattan, while body lotions can be an all-year-round staple.

This doesn’t mean you have to choose one or the other. Many people use both.

I personally love applying lotion first and then sealing everything in with a lightweight body butter.

Who Should Use a Body Butter?

Almost everyone can benefit from one.

Body butters are especially helpful for people with dry, flaky, or dehydrated skin.

If your skin is easily irritated, look for fragrance-free options or body butters without essential oils. 

Also, oily skin can use body butter too. The key is to choose a lightweight formula and apply it sparingly.

For combination skin, apply body butter only to areas that need extra moisture, such as elbows, knees, ankles, and lower legs.

What to Look for in a Body Butter

Not all body butters are created equal.

Here are a few things to consider before buying one:

Ingredients

Look for nourishing ingredients such as:

  • Shea butter
  • Mango butter
  • Cocoa butter
  • Kokum butter
  • Jojoba oil
  • Sweet almond oil

The fewer unnecessary fillers, the better.

Skin Type

Choose a formulation that matches your skin’s needs.

  • Dry skin: richer formulations
  • Oily skin: lightweight whipped butters
  • Sensitive skin: fragrance-free options

Fragrance

If you have sensitive skin, avoid heavily fragranced products and essential oils, as they may cause irritation.

Packaging

A good container protects the product from excessive heat and sunlight. If you travel often, secure packaging is a plus.

Budget

There are excellent body butters available at different price points. Expensive doesn’t always mean better.

Do You Really Need a Body Butter?

In my opinion, yes.

Think of body butter as an upgraded version of petroleum jelly. It doesn’t just sit on the skin; it also nourishes it with vitamins, fatty acids, and plant-based ingredients.

If you live in a humid climate like Nigeria, you may not need to apply body butter from head to toe every day. Instead, focus on areas prone to dryness, such as the elbows and feet.

However, during harmattan, colder months, or periods when your skin feels particularly dry, body butter can become your best friend.

How to Use Body Butter

Here’s the routine I recommend:

Step 1:Shower with your preferred body wash or shower gel.

Step 2: Apply your body lotion to slightly damp skin. You can skip this step if you prefer a simpler routine.

Step 3: Apply a moderate amount of body butter. Massage it into the skin until fully absorbed. If the weather is hot, focus on areas that tend to become dry or ashy.

Step 4: Apply your body spray or perfume to pulse points and moisturized areas. A well-moisturized base can help fragrance last longer throughout the day.

Pro Tip: If you sweat heavily, avoid applying body butter all over your body. Focus on your elbows, wrists, knees, ankles, and lower legs for comfortable wear.

My Favorite Body Butters

Soapy Suds Even Out Body Butta Creme

One of my favorite Nigerian brands. This butter is a great option for those looking for moisture with ingredients that target hyperpigmentation.

Arami Essentials Body Butter Range

Another Nigerian brand known for its rich formulations and nourishing ingredients.

R&R Skincare Whipped Shea Body Butter

A luxurious option that leaves the skin feeling soft, smooth, and pampered.

ADI Whipped Body Butter

Of course, I have to mention my own creation. I designed the A Dash of Iruoma Whipped Body Butter to provide deep nourishment while maintaining a lightweight feel that works well in our climate.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Can I Use Body Butter Every Day?

Absolutely. Daily use can help maintain soft, healthy-looking skin.

  • Is Body Butter Better Than Lotion?

Not necessarily. They serve different purposes. Lotion hydrates, while body butter helps seal in moisture and provides deeper nourishment.

  • Can Oily Skin Use Body Butter?

Yes. Lightweight whipped body butters are often a better choice for oily skin types.

  • When Is the Best Time to Apply Body Butter?

Immediately after bathing, while the skin is still slightly damp.

Body butters are one of the easiest ways to elevate your body care routine. Whether you’re looking for deep nourishment during harmattan or simply want softer, glowier skin, there’s a body butter out there that’s perfect for you.

The key is finding a formula that suits your skin type, lifestyle, and preferences.

Have you tried a body butter before?

I’d love to know your favorite one. Share your recommendations and experiences in the comments below!

Why I Finally Created ADI Whipped Body Butter

by with No Comment Beauty

The first body butter I ever encountered wasn’t a body butter per se. It was the good old shea butter “ori” sold in local markets.

Growing up, my mum used it for almost everything. It was a balm, a hair moisturizer, and the first thing we reached for when someone had a mild skin irritation. The smell wasn’t exactly my favorite, but I remember loving how soft my skin felt after it melted in.

At the time, I had no idea that this simple butter would spark a love affair with body care years later.

Fast forward to 2020.

Like many people during the COVID-19 pandemic, I found myself spending a lot more time online. I was deep in beauty YouTube, skincare blogs, and DIY beauty tutorials. One day, I came across a video by Torera making body butter in her home, and for some reason, I was intrigued.

We already had some raw shea butter at home, so I convinced my sister to come along with me on a mission to buy the other ingredients. We picked up almond oil and essential oils like lavender and rose hip, rushed home, and got to work.

That first batch wasn’t perfect, but it was enough to make me fall in love with the process.

First-ever body butter- Dec 2020

March 31st 2021- whipping another batch for home

April 2021- more tweaking of my recipe

Enough to make me realize that body care could be simple, nourishing, and enjoyable.

And apparently, enough to impress everyone in my house.

Before long, family members were asking for jars. What started as a fun experiment became a staple in our home.

I kept making, tweaking, and improving it.

Reaching for it during rainy days.

Packing it into suitcases whenever I travelled.

Then, somewhere along the way, life got busy, and I stopped making large batches and returned to making just enough for myself.

For years, that was enough.

Why I Didn’t Launch It Earlier

If I’m being completely honest, fear played a role. Every time I thought about sharing it with more people, I found a reason to wait. Maybe it wasn’t good enough.

Maybe people wouldn’t be interested.

Maybe someone else was already doing it better.

So I kept the idea tucked away in a corner of my mind.

Until this year.

One day, my sister casually asked if I still had any body butter available.

It seemed like such a simple question.

But it reminded me of something important.

People had been asking for this product for years.

The only person standing in the way was me.

A few weeks later, Google Photos showed me pictures from the very first batch I made back in 2020, complete with a cutesy home photoshoot.

Looking at those pictures felt like a full-circle moment.

It reminded me how long this dream had been sitting on the shelf.

And it became the push I needed to finally share it with the world.

Why I Created ADI Whipped Body Butter

Of course, body butters have many skincare benefits. They help nourish the skin, lock in moisture, and leave the skin feeling soft and smooth. I shared an in-depth piece here on the blog.

However, my reason for creating the ADI whipped body butter goes deeper than that.

Over the years, I’ve noticed that many conversations around body care often revolve around lightening, bleaching, or changing the skin. That should never be the focus.

Your body deserves the same level of care, attention, and nourishment as your face. Healthy, moisturized skin is beautiful skin.

ADI Whipped Body Butter was created for people who want soft, nourished, glowing skin without feeling pressured to alter their natural complexion.

It’s skincare rooted in care, not insecurity.

What Makes ADI Different?

When I started working on the formula, I knew I wanted something rich enough to nourish the skin yet comfortable to wear, especially in our climate. Nobody wants to feel like they’ve coated themselves in cooking oil before stepping outside.

ADI Whipped Body Butter was designed to:

  • Deeply moisturize dry skin
  • Help reduce ashiness
  • Leave the skin soft and smooth
  • Give a healthy-looking glow
  • Feel nourished without being overly heavy

It’s particularly helpful during rainy seasons, harmattan, colder weather, or anytime your skin needs extra moisture.

What’s Inside ADI Whipped Body Butter?

I carefully sourced each ingredient with a purpose in mind.

  • Mango Butter

Provides lightweight moisture and helps soften the skin without feeling overly greasy.

  • Kokum Butter

Known for its lightweight feel and ability to support the skin barrier while helping maintain a smooth texture.

  • Shea Butter

A classic moisturizer that nourishes dry skin and locks in hydration.

  • Beeswax

Helps seal moisture into the skin and gives the butter its protective qualities.

  • Cetyl Alcohol

A fatty alcohol that improves texture, stability, and spreadability while leaving the skin feeling soft.

  • Sweet Almond Oil

Helps condition and soften the skin while providing additional nourishment.

  • Lavender Essential Oil

Adds a light, calming scent and elevates the overall experience of using the body butter.

  • Vitamin E Oil

Acts as an antioxidant and helps maintain the formulation’s stability.

Who Is It For?

ADI Whipped Body Butter may be a great fit if:

  • Your skin often looks dry or ashy
  • You struggle with rough elbows, knees, ankles, or heels
  • You enjoy body care and self-care rituals
  • You want moisturized, glowing skin
  • You’re looking for a richer alternative to body lotion

How to Use It

For best results:

  1. Apply after bathing while your skin is just dry enough, or after applying your body lotion
  2. Massage a small amount into the skin.
  3. Pay extra attention to dry areas such as elbows, knees, ankles, and heels.
  4. Follow with your favorite body mist or perfume if desired.

PS: A little goes a long way.

Shelf Life

ADI Whipped Body Butter has a shelf life of approximately 12 months because it is anhydrous, meaning it contains no water.

To maximize its shelf life:

  • Store away from direct sunlight.
  • Avoid introducing water into the jar.
  • Use clean, dry hands when applying.

What Early Users Are Saying

“ADI Whipped Body Butter has been a staple during winter. I love that it’s multifunctional. I use it as both a body butter and hand cream.” – Chibike

“A few weeks after I started using ADI Whipped Body Butter, someone complimented my glowing skin while I was at court. I had to come back for a second jar.”– Chizelum

Where To Get It

ADI Whipped Body Butter is now available for purchase on SELAR. Delivery is only in Lagos for now.

Final Thoughts

What started as a lockdown hobby has become something I am incredibly proud to share.

ADI Whipped Body Butter isn’t just a skincare product to me. It represents years of experimentation, learning, growth, and finally choosing courage over fear.

More than anything, I hope it encourages you to care for your skin intentionally and embrace the beauty of nourishing the skin you’re already in.

Thank you for being part of this journey.

I can’t wait to see where it leads.

The Cow Was Always Tied; On Hope and Fear

by with No Comment Faith
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A crying girl stood between me and the entrance to the toilet.

Her sobs came in loud bursts, the kind that takes over your whole body and makes you look funny. She couldn’t have been more than eight. Pink top, flared skirt, with cornrows that looked newly done. This little girl wasn’t just crying; she was wailing and frozen in place as something scary stood in her way. 

In that moment, I followed her line of sight. A brown cow.

Massive, still, and tied to a pole just a few feet from the entrance.

The cow looked like a gift for Thanksgiving, kept at the back of the church grounds where the library was tucked away. Up close, it looked even bigger than it probably was with its thick neck and an occasional flick of the ear. It didn’t move toward us. In fact, it couldn’t because the rope held it firmly in place, but the girl didn’t see that. All she saw was danger.

I had stepped out of the library for a short break. It was one of those quiet afternoons where the sun feels gentle instead of harsh, and for once, I wasn’t rushing. Lately, I had been spending more time at this paid library, determined to get my money’s worth. 

However, I didn’t expect to walk into fear that day.

“Hey, look at me,” I said, stepping closer.

She did not.

The little girl’s eyes stayed glued to this cow, as though looking away would somehow make it charge towards her.

“It’s okay,” I tried again, softer this time. “I’m here.”

She did not flinch.

So I moved in front of her, gently blocking her view. For a second, she resisted, trying to peek around me, desperate to keep the threat in sight. But eventually, her eyes met mine.

“Good,” I said quietly, but I was almost losing my patience. “Now stay with me.”

I reached for her hand and positioned myself between her and the cow. Step by step, I guided her towards the door.

Those moments felt longer than they were. Her grip was tight. Her breathing uneven. Every few seconds, she tried to look past me again.

“Eyes here, baby girl,” I reminded her.

One step. Then another.

And then we were outside.

The end was almost comical. The moment her feet crossed the threshold, the crying stopped. Like someone flipped a switch.

She sniffed once, adjusted her skirt, and walked off, as though the past few minutes hadn’t happened at all.

I stood there for a second, half-amused, half-amazed, wondering where all that fear went.

Later, I couldn’t stop thinking about her because, if I’m honest, I’ve been that girl more times than I’d like to admit.

Fixated. Stuck. Completely overwhelmed by something that looks like a threat even when it isn’t. Or at least, not as powerful as I imagine it to be.

Sometimes it’s my career. The uncertainty. The pressure to get things right. The quiet fear of falling behind.

Sometimes it’s decisions I haven’t made yet.

Sometimes, it’s nothing concrete at all, just a feeling that something could go wrong.

And like her, I lock my eyes on it. I study it. Magnify it. Let it grow until it fills my entire field of vision. All the while forgetting the One standing right in front of me.

I wonder sometimes if Jesus watches me the way I watched that little girl.

Patient. 

Gently stepping into my line of sight. Not removing the “cow,” not always changing the situation, but offering me something else to focus on.

“Look at me,” He says.

And I don’t always listen. Sometimes I keep glancing back, convinced the “danger” deserves more of my attention than He does.

But when I actually fix my gaze where it should be, something shifts. 

Maybe not the situation, but me.

The cow was always tied.

The only thing that changed was where she was looking.

And maybe that’s the point I’m still learning too.

PS: This piece was culled from my Substack. I loved how relatable it was with my newsletter community and believe that more people need the encouragement.

See you in the next post,

All my love!

Skin1004 Centella Madagascar Ampoule Review: Hydrating or Overhyped?

by with One Comment BeautyReviews

There’s something about Lagos heat that exposes your skincare routine for what it really is. One minute your skin is fine, the next you’re oily, slightly dehydrated, and wondering if your products are actually doing anything at all.

That was exactly where I was when I reached for the Skin1004 Centella Madagascar Ampoule, a product I had been introduced to via PR but hadn’t paid much attention to at first.

Skin1004 is a Korean Skincare brand that launched in 2012. According to their website, “Whatever touches the skin must be pure. Let us deliver to you the untouched nature and its purity to your skin, to help you discover your best skin.”

First Impressions and Description

The ampoule comes in 30ml, 55ml, and 100ml bottles, packaged in a clean glass bottle with a soft gold hue and a white dropper. It looks simple, but it will be aesthetically pleasing on your shelf. 

The product itself has a golden hue in the bottle but appears colorless in the dropper. 

The texture? Very watery.

And I mean run-down-your-face-before-you-blend-it-in watery.

At first, it was slightly annoying to work with, but after a few uses, I got used to it.

What It Claims vs Reality

The brand claims this ampoule helps to:

  • Soothe redness
  • Hydrate deeply
  • Support the skin barrier

From my experience:

  1. Hydration – Yes, but in a light, refreshing way. This is not a heavy, long-lasting hydration that replaces your moisturizer. Think of it more as a quick drink of water for your skin.
  2. Soothing effect –  Subtle. I didn’t have significant redness to track, but it did feel calming, especially on days my skin felt slightly irritated.
  3. Barrier support – This feels more like a maintenance product than a repair treatment.

How It Performs

  • In humid Lagos weather, it feels incredibly lightweight and doesn’t add to the “my face is melting” feeling.
  • Under sunscreen, it absorbs quickly, no pilling, no stickiness.
  • It gives a soft, healthy glow. Not oily, not glass skin, just a fresh finish.

There’s something about how quickly it sinks in that makes it easy to reach for, especially when you’re in a hurry.

The Skin 1004 Centella Ampoule Ingredients

Key ingredients include:

  • Centella Asiatica Extract: known for calming and soothing the skin
  • Panthenol:  helps with hydration and barrier support
  • Sodium Hyaluronate: attracts moisture to the skin

The formula is minimal, which explains why it layers easily with other products.

Ingredients as seen on their website: 

Water, 1,2- Hexanediol, Butylene Glycol, Centella Asiatica Extract, Panthenol, Xanthan Gum, Sodium Hyaluronate, Ethylhexylglycerin, Disodium EDTA, Citric Acid

My Experience

I’ll be honest that I wasn’t very consistent at first. I used it on alternate days, then eventually used it daily (morning and night), and that’s when I appreciated it more.

The immediate glow after application? Love.

That quick, plump, hydrated look? Even better.

It’s the kind of product that makes your skin look good instantly, even if it’s not doing anything dramatic long-term.

Pros

  • Lightweight and perfect for humid weather
  • Absorbs quickly with no sticky residue
  • Beginner-friendly and easy to layer
  • Comes in different sizes for flexibility

Cons

  • It can be hard to find, depending on your location
  • Very basic—may feel underwhelming if you want targeted results
  • Not suitable if your focus is on hyperpigmentation or acne treatment

Who Should Try This

  • If your skin feels dehydrated but you hate heavy products
  • If you’re trying to simplify your routine
  • If your skin is in a “let me not stress it” phase

Who Should Skip It

  • If you’re targeting acne scars or hyperpigmentation
  • If you prefer active-heavy skincare with visible transformation
  • If you want one product to do everything

FAQs 

Does it brighten the skin?
Not quite. This is more of a hydration and soothing product than a brightening one, and I like that the brand doesn’t overpromise.

Is it safe for everyday use?
Yes, it’s gentle enough for daily use, both morning and night.

Can you mix it with actives?
Yes. Its minimal formula makes it easy to pair with other active ingredients.

What skin type benefits from it?

Every skin type!

If you’re not sure what your skin type is, I’ve got you covered with this detailed post 

How To Know Your Skin Type

Where to Shop

I got mine from Shop With Teeka, but you can also check trusted skincare vendors. If you’re outside Nigeria, platforms like Amazon, Ulta, Sephora, or the brand’s official website are good options.

Final Verdict

I’d rate this a solid 9/10 for what it is.

But here’s the thing, I don’t see myself repurchasing it anytime soon.

Not because it’s bad, but because my current skin concerns need something more targeted and active-focused.

This feels like a supporting character in a routine and not the main act.

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2025 Wrapped- Highlights of The Past Year

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Ps; this is the third time this post is being uploaded. My website has decided to move funny and restoring it has led to losing this post twice in a row, but we don’t give up here right? Right.

Helloooooo and happy happy new year! Can you believe 2025 is over? Is it just me, but did it not feel like the fastest year of my life despite being slow on most days? 

I apologise for not giving you consistent blog posts and video content, but this year tested my multitasking capacities, and I am relieved to say that I couldn’t juggle as many balls as I thought. 

Nonetheless, I wouldn’t pass up an opportunity to share something with you, even if that means a new year post! So grab a cup of tea or wine and let’s catch up!

I am attempting my version of “wrapped” by highlighting top events or things I enjoyed in 2025. 

How’s “being” going?

For the first time in a while, someone used my words against me.

When the year 2025 started, I boldly wrote on my blog how I intended to live this year. It’s my “desire to enjoy the moments”. Funny enough, I started the year with an answered prayer for my career and then a blatant rejection of another career progression in the same month. All that to say, thank God for keeping things running smoothly even when my eyes can’t see. 

Weddings

I attended 3 out of 4 weddings I planned to. Any time I get to witness a wedding ceremony, especially when I know the bride, it is a mixture of awe and excitement. 

Awe because weddings are a lot of mental gymnastics and financial commitment. Excitement because it’s an opportunity to look gorgeous and catch up with people I haven’t seen in a while. These weddings were remarkable for me because I ate well and had fun! 

Top Music

My babe says my taste in music is erratic, but I would still give my recommendations for the people who have a similar taste. Thankfully, Spotify did us a favour with their wrapped so I would just share from that.

I listened to 97 genres, but my top 5 were:

  1. Contemporary Gospel
  2. Afro R & B
  3. Yacht Rock
  4. Christian
  5. Pop

My listening age is 25, as I was into music from the 2010s. I found that hilarious!

I listened to 451 songs, and my number 1 was Game Changer by Ada Ehi. That was my anthem from April to August because those months tested me!

The others in my top 5 were ;

  • Enough by Elias Dummer
  • ZA by Anendelessocean
  • He will be by CityAlight
  • Your Love by Moses Bliss and Chandler Moore

Places Visited

One thing I desired last year was to visit new places. There’s just something about leaving your daily routine to experience a different culture or place. In 2025, I visited 3 new places- Ghana, Enugu and Abuja. 

Ghana was a second time, but I loved that I could experience it as an adult. I stayed in Accra, which felt like a second version of Lagos but way mellow. My favorite things about these travels were trying new meals and coming out of my comfort zone to experience people’s cultures. 

Enugu, the coal city in Nigeria, is barely a two-hour drive from my state of origin in Anambra, but I had never visited it till last year. This state is beautiful. Their network of roads is massive and neat. The disadvantage of being in Lagos for too long is that you become myopic about the beauty of other states. I wish the insecurity in Nigeria wasn’t this bad because we have so many beautiful places in the country, and I have barely scratched the surface. 

Abuja was another place I enjoyed this year. I went there for my sister’s call to the bar. Let’s just say my first culture shock was the Uber fare. What do you mean for a journey of 30 minutes, I only get to pay 2500 naira?

It is also a beautiful city, and my uncle tried to take us everywhere possible.  Alas, we only have 24 hours in a day, and there’s only so many activities you can cram into one day. Hopefully, I will visit again soon!

See Abuja Through My Lens: From Call To Bar to Magic Land Amusement Park


Top Podacasts

I had 4 recurring podcasts on my list this year, but my top podcast was The Gospel In Lagos. This is also a shameless plug for my church, City Church. If you are looking for a gospel-centred church in Lagos, check us out.

I also listened to a lot of Divine Intervention podcasts for medical concepts and kinda liked clinical medicine again- emphasis on kinda because I still have a love-hate relationship with it. 

My other faves were With The Perrys by Jackie Hill and Preston Perry and Female by Design by Francine Winslow.

Books I read in 2025

I read 4 non- medical books and finished 2. I’m nit proud of that but I promise you I tried. They were; 

  • The 12 Week Year by Brian P. Moran & Micheal Lennington
  • The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson
  • Dream Count by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
  • Neither Bomb Nor Bullet by Andrew Boyd

The last two are my completed reads. My favorite story in Dream Count was Kadiatou’s- an immigrant who battled the horror of sexual assault. I would leave the rest of the details for you to uncover. 

Archbishop Benjamin Kwashi’s story is inspiring. I have read accounts of men persecuted for the gospel of Christ, but none have been as relatable as this Nigerian who lives in Nigeria and is at the forefront of the persecution in the north.

He speaks about his transformation from a young soldier to a bishop. His wife, Gloria, his family and his remarkable generosity towards orphans. All I can say is get your copy of this book!

For 12 week year, I love that it provides practical insight to planning your days and being audacious. I haven’t given up on completing it yet, but self-help books took a backseat this past year for me. Perhaps I would pick it up again in 2026. Maybe not. The same goes for the second book on my list. Getting my hands on it this year was exhilarating. The author literally doesn’t care about your feelings as he means business with his words of advice. 

My Top skincare

Did you really think I was going to wrap up this post without saying a word of skincare? Never!🤭

Let’s start with face care. Truthfully, this past year, my pocket faced financial crises, and I couldn’t afford to splurge on skincare as I normally would. Thankfully, my skin behaved itself, and we pulled through.

My top fighters were:

  • Facefacts Salicylic acid and,
  • Facefacts hydrating ceramide face wash: These face washes were what my face needed for good oil control while not stripping the natural oils.
  • Tiam vit B 3 serum- I had forgotten how good this serum is! Check out the full review here
  • Nivea Sungel: This will always be a fave! I recommend this sunscreen to anyone who likes a skin-like finish and doesn’t like overwhelming skincare products.

For body care, my top fighters were:

  • Dove body washes! Any dove wash that smells good always wins my heart
  • Re CHARGE Orange and ginger Body wash plus foam bath
  • Dove Advanced Care Invisible + cucumber and cactus water antiperspirant
  • Nivea Nourishing Cocoa lotion

The past year has been filled with answered prayers- yes, no, not now.

I pivoted in ways I never thought I would and found out I really have no strength of my own- just God’s, and I am not mad about it.

I wish you a wonderful year ahead, amigos.

Cheers to 2026!

See Abuja Through My Lens: From Call To Bar to Magic Land Amusement Park

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I was born in Lagos and grew up there for most of my life. Typically, the first question I get asked when I share that fact is how many other places I have been to in Nigeria. I get that disappointing glare when I recount my state of origin Anambra, Ekiti, Ogun and Oyo. This year, I really wanted to visit Abuja.

When my sister’s call to bar preparation started, it was the perfect opportunity to tag along. I had lots of questions.

What would it look like?

What is Abuja best known for?

How can I have fun in Abuja?

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Thankfully, I got to experience some of these for myself, and because you’re my fave, I would share them with you!

First, the domestic flight. This was my first time flying domestically. For someone who has had the privilege of international flights, I could not understand the “madness” I experienced before boarding. From the rude customer service agents to the sheer lack of organization, I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. It was so bad I almost missed my flight. Thankfully, I made it just in time to hear my name called for boarding and left Lagos for the owners.

The main reason for visiting Abuja was to attend my sister’s call to the Nigerian bar. Watching my sister study like her life depended on it in law school was a whole experience. I have never seen her read like that-ever! Now, being on the other side of enjoying that hard work was a dream come true and a huge sigh of relief.

Attending the event at the Body of Benchers Complex was another work of favour by God. I got a special guest invite and didn’t have to struggle for a good seat, thanks to a kind soul we met at our hotel. See, I totally believe in God’s favour, and that was no coincidence. Fast forward to D-Day. The event was short, and the new wigs (as they are called) took their oath. It was a beautiful sight to behold, especially among proud parents and relatives.

We had a mini reception at Abuja Continental by evening, courtesy of some amazing uncles and aunties. It was a buffet, and the instruction was eat till you drop. I took that assignment seriously, and by 10 pm, my stomach could take no more.

With the call to bar done, it was time to explore.

At the top of our list was Magicland amusement park. I had heard so much about this place, and the videos and pictures looked promising. Magic Land is located at Wuye, Abuja and is the perfect place for an outing with every family member, from old to young.

The entry fee was 1500 naira.. Note that they only take cash and convert it to tickets. Thankfully, there are POS stands outside and even within the park in case you need cash. There are also snack stands and a restaurant if you fancy.

The rides range from 1500 to 3000 naira, which are pretty affordable. If you want an all-inclusive package, you pay 18000 naira, which covers your entry fee and access to all the rides.

My siblings and I tried the car race, pendulum and rollercoaster. That pendulum ride was crazy! I would not advise anyone to try it. But guess what? I had seen a TikTok review where the lady advised us not to, and I still went ahead. It was SCARY! My eyes were closed for most of the ride.

We walked around, took some pictures and had an amazing time in general. They also have an arcade, but it looked like Rufus and Bees, Lagos, and I was over it. Another fun spot in Abuja to try is Galaxxy Pizza. It has a calm cafe vibe, and their pizza is top-notch! Their milkshake was also creamy and thick, and definitely good value for money.

Speaking of good food spots, my aunt took us to Akara Cafe. What do we say about people who stay in a niche and are good at it? These guys have hacked the code because how are you making millions from akara (bean cake)? We saw people coming from the gym, or heading to work, trooping in to have an amazing breakfast. The scenery was chill, and I would recommend this place for a beautiful start to your morning in Abuja on a visit. I had their maxi platter and was full till evening.

We also had a stop at the Transcorp Hilton hotel. I have heard about this hotel, but getting to experience it was bliss. My siblings and I enjoyed the piano night and the sonorous voice of the singer while we explored the ground floor and the activities area. The only questions ringing in my head were:

“What are Abuja people doing for a living? How do people pay for this hotel?”

One regret I have is not going to the Kilishi market, a friend suggested. That would have been a good experience to have. It is located at the Area 1 shopping complex, if you want to check it out. I was bummed I took a short time interval to explore the city, but all in all I’m grateful that i got to experience this and look forward to another time at Abuja.

Have you been to Abuja? Do you plan on visiting soon?
Share your thoughts with me in the comments

Top Moisturizers For Oily Skin- Part 1

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As an oily and acne-prone babe, finding the best moisturizer can be a hassle, which is why including an article for top moisturizers for oily skin was on my “to-write” list!

Many people think oily skin doesn’t need moisture, but skipping moisturizer can actually lead to even more oil production. Are you tired of moisturizers that leave your skin feeling greasy or cause breakouts?

In this video, I’m breaking down the five best moisturisers for oily skin that provide hydration without feeling overwhelming. Whether you have acne-prone skin, combination skin, or want a fresh, matte finish, I’ve tested and reviewed some of the most popular and dermatologist-recommended options just for you!

What’s in this video?

  • In-depth reviews of five top-rated moisturizers for oily skin
  • Texture, absorption, and finish breakdown
  • Honest pros & cons for each product.

PS- Part two is also up on the blog, so check it out for more options.

Have you tried any of these moisturizers? Let me know your thoughts in the comments! I’d love to hear what works for your skin type—and if I missed any of your faves, drop them below.

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Top 5 Moisturizers For Oily Skin- Part 2

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Are you struggling with oily skin and can’t find the right moisturizer?

In this video, I share 5 of the best moisturizers for oily skin (part 2) — breaking down the pros and cons of each so you know exactly which one will work for your skin type. From lightweight gels to hydrating creams, these moisturizers are non-greasy, oil-free, and perfect for anyone battling shine, breakouts, or clogged pores.

Products mentioned:

1. Purito Panthenol Cream – soothing and barrier-strengthening

2. Neutrogena Grapefruit Moisturizer – fresh and oil-controlling

3. Neutrogena Hydro Boost Gel Cream – lightweight hydration with hyaluronic acid

4. Isntree Green Tea Emulsion – antioxidant-rich and calming

5. AC Oil Free Gel –not overwhelming and breakout-friendly

Whether you have acne-prone skin, combo skin, or want a moisturizer that won’t make you greasy by noon, these picks will help keep your skin balanced and healthy.

PS- Catch up on part one here!